One of the things that I have found to be very interesting this week in class is just how much we need to make sure that we are including the Lord in everything that we do.  When it comes to marital intimacy we need to make sure that we get a confirmation from the lord that it is ok.  We need to absolutely make sure that we are being faithful to our spouses.  We should not be looking for other relationships with other people.  When we get married it is our job to make sure everything that we do revolves around the partners.  You shouldn’t be sharing your personal problems with someone that is not your spouse.  If you do this then you have the chance of creating a bond with them and this is not good.  When we get married we are supposed to cleave unto our spouses and no one else.  This is where the problems come in.  It is when we go through troubles and difficulties and we are not talking about them to our husbands, or our wives, but to other people.  Marriage is sacred and this is the way that we need to keep it.